Monday, August 25, 2008

The joy of discovering your sexual uniqueness

Funny. I just read a great post (which led to more great posts) on really uncovering your sexual identity. Reader(s): I am a woman in her mid-40's with a raging sexual appetite! Now, this may just be me, I don't know, but I am more aware of an ache in my crotch now than ever in my life. I've always been a lusty wench, but this is different. It isn't just my mind...it's my body. Delicious but disturbing as there don't seem to be enough outlets for relief as I would like.

A therapist told me years ago that I'm a sensualist. I saw her for a very brief time but it was a pretty accurate read. I'd rather be teased to submission than anything, relishing touch and pressure and eye contact. It takes years to discover these things which is why the new interest in "cougars" has probably emerged...young men (and women) are discovering the secrets the older broads have to share.

What new things have you learned about YOURSELF if you are, indeed, a cougar...

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